Your Safety Is Our First Priority
Whether you're exchanging your first message or planning an exciting first coffee date, these practical guidelines and helplines empower you to navigate modern dating with confidence and safety.
1. Online Dating & Messaging Safety
Best practices for vetting profiles and keeping conversations safe.
Keep Financial Details Private
Never send money, cryptocurrency, or wire transfers to anyone you meet online, regardless of their emergency story.
Look for the Verified 3D Badge
Connect preferentially with profiles featuring our blue 3D Selfie Verification checkmark.
Stay on the App First
Keep initial conversations within GoCrush until you feel confident and comfortable sharing phone numbers.
Report Suspicious Behavior
Use in-app report buttons immediately if someone makes you uncomfortable, asks inappropriate questions, or seems fake.
2. In-Person First Date Guidelines
Safety protocols when meeting someone in real life.
Meet in Public Spaces
Always plan first dates in busy public venues (cafes, restaurants, parks). Avoid private residences or secluded locations.
Tell a Friend Your Plans
Share your live location, who you are meeting, and where you're going with a trusted friend or family member.
Control Your Transportation
Drive yourself or use ride-sharing apps so you remain in complete control of when and how you leave.
Watch Your Food & Drinks
Only accept drinks poured directly from the bartender or server. Never leave your drink unattended.
24/7 Verified Emergency Helplines
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, contact emergency services right away.
Child Safety & CSAE Policy →
Zero tolerance framework, underage prevention, and law enforcement escalation.
Community Guidelines →
Standards of respect, photo rules, harassment prevention, and three-strike bans.
Nuclear Data Wipe Portal →
Permanent self-service deletion of profile, photos, and chat history.